Call This Shit NIggaz II Men

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This is a response to "The Lies We Told Our Daughters" and "The Lies We Refuse To Belive". I'll begin by criticizing Blackmon's grandiose ideology which I've audienced time and time again and Vivranthing's use of "boys" and "girls"..."boys are great!" The first was a conjure of excuses mostly written on his own behalf, festooned (word to McCain) with ambiguous language that has become all too familiar. We all know this man be bullshiting. Poetry, yes. Journalism, no. The second, a "girly" faultfinding whine that was prepared by failed experiences with "boys". Both were enjoyable and made some great points but as an asshole I had to come at yall and also add my 2 cents.

The issue of commitment with men can be viewed as influence by society because it is, just as all behavior is. However, its a given. Lets instead try to point out some specific and down to earth reasons. Young men, as vivranthing would call them, "boys", can sadly sometimes only be viewed as such. Many young man will run through as many women as they can before finding the maturity needed for commitment. While they desire love and companionship just as their female counterparts, the main concern is sexual experience. Just trying to fuck...(I really don't feel like writing any more after that statement). Their young! For a young man to be tied down is trully illogical and limiting. A man is a conquerer and every possibility life offers is his conquest, and a foolish girl can easily get in the way. For young men who have big ambitions and are adventurous, its not a good look. Young women, wouldn't you much rather wait to find a man who has seen his likes and dislikes and has been made ready to decide if you're "the one"? Not to mention he's accomplished, wise, and made more of a man.

Ima save you a whimsical trip like Blackmon's and say, basically, the issue here is maturation. For young women, if you're young, educated, aware, and ambitous, being with a man isn't what you need right now anyway. Yes, society suggests that you're incomplete without one. Don't fulfill this ideal. Make strides in completing yourself. Thats what makes you more desireable to men. Not a 20-something year old girl that is looking for a bubble gum relationship. Meaning, maybe you need to grow up yourself. If you grown, find someone thats grown. If you still growing, find someone to grow with. Also, know that some niggas never grow up. These are the grown men who cheat. Only invest with a young man whose future you can see and appreciate. For young men, just be real about yo shit. As Vivranthing said, don't be a bitch and lie. If you just trying smash, tell a bitch to do the math. Find a girl thats down with that. When you're both truly mature enough to know what love is and find someone to share it with, congratulations, but you gotta live first to find that.

In closing, I urge all young men and women, teenaged to mid 20s, to persue casual relationships, if a relationship is what you desire. Otherwise, yo ass is gon be hurtin, and you gonna be crying like a little boy or girl... If you 45, married, and your man's cheating and for some reason you're reading this blog, my advise is yall need to grow up too...get me....Wicked